My take on college.... it depends. I was smart enough out of high school (Top 20 in my class) but all those good grades in high school was pretty easy. I got accepted to Georgia Tech and fond out how difficult it was in the first semester. It did not help that I was a commuter to Tech. Regardless, I have some money by uncle left me to help pay for college. It was not my money so I did not really take it seriously. I was not a party animal, I just could not focus enough to make it. I dropped out of Tech after 2 semesters. I eventually landed at Kennesaw State but still only got through part of my sophomore year. My degree would have been Computer Information Systems.
I was lucky enough to have the aptitude for computers and IT work and a company that gave me a chance without a college degree. I started lower than those without one (started at 25k a year back in 1996) but I ended up making a nice career without a college degree paying very well.
College was not something either of my kids really wanted and we had some money set aside for them (not much) but we were very stern that we did not want them to get student loans. Neither of them (both girls) wanted to do anything that it seems most women could make decent money doing (nursing, teacher, etc). Both wanted to do something with graphic design, with one dead set on digital animation. But neither really want to put in any effort in advancing in any career, preferring to be the followers and never the leader. I am always scared for their future but even with the degrees they were pursuing I would worry about the same thing.
I LOVE the idea of vocational type training, but most of that stuff is heavily slanted towards stuff men would want to do. You will not find the majority of women that was to become a plumber, lineman, welder, auto mechanic, etc. Only vocational thing I ever see that most women gravitate to is Cosmetology, and that is not an easy field to make money in.
OK I got off the rails there, but the bottom line is college is not for everyone, but you better have a good backup plan and work your ass off to get where you want to be, which hopefully involves making the money to live.