This is an issue where things are sometimes taken out of context, and possibly misunderstood when translated to modern English.
The real meaning behind it s that women should not exercise doctrinal authority over a man. So no, women should not be pastors. But they absolutely can serve, and teach so long as the "teaching" is not exercising doctrinal authority.
Some translations of 1st and 2nd Timothy as it relates to this substitute the terms wife and husband for woman and man. Meaning. parts of those scriptures might have been referring to within a marriage. EX: A wife should not have doctrinal authority over her husband. This would be consistent with
Ephesians 5:23
23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.
God's word is clear that the man (husband, father) is the spiritual leader of the family.
So what about modern problems such as a single mom or a traditional family where the man is not Christian? Does a mother teach her son, even an adult son about Jesus? Does she quote scripture for support?
Can a woman witness to a man? Can she share Jesus with him?
I tend to think God would be OK with both these scenarios.
Was Mary Magdalene wrong to tell of Jesus' resurrection? Certainly, she was ministering to some degree. I mean, she and Joanna were telling this to the apostles (men).
“Now it was Mary Magdalene and Joanna and Mary the mother of James and the other women with them who told these things to the apostles.” Luke 24:10 NIV
And then there's this:
Jesus broke down more cultural barriers when He took a detour through Samaria. There, He had an encounter with an immoral woman (
John 4:4–26). The fact that she was a Samaritan was enough to bar her from any conversation with a self-respecting Jew, but, to make matters worse in the disciples’ eyes, she was a
woman (verse 27). As they watched, their Master transformed that woman and through her impacted an entire city with His message of hope and redemption (verses 39–41).
We all know women were kinda second class citizens in those times. Yet Jesus surrounded himself with women he trusted and used them to help spread his message.
So women certainly have their roll in ministry. If men would fulfill their Biblical responsibilities instead of being the panty wastes so many men are these days, it really wouldn't be much of a problem.