Well, when it rains it pours.
First off on the mother-in-law...this situation continues to get worse, she is convinced she's about to die and she gets very abusive, even physically violent at times. It's all her daughters can do to handle her. They can't continue like this, especially with things getting worse. There's no money there, and nursing homes are all but impossible given the current epidemic.
Now on top of that, my daughter is due to give birth at any moment, and the son-in-law just tested positive for COVID. My daughter is mildly ill as well, and the youngest girl is running a fever. They won't let hubby into the hospital with her with a positive test, and if my daughter tests positive, they will take the baby now. Problem with that is, she would not get to see or nurse the baby until she is clear of COVID. Whether they will let mom or me in to be with her and/or keep the baby is unknown, but if so we would have to be COVID tested with a negative first. The test my son-in-law took was a 15 min test, and they are notorious for false positives, so he and my daughter are going tomorrow morning to get a "real" test done. Problem is, it's 2-3 days until they get the results.
So my family has multiple messes on our hands at the moment.
Prayers, thoughts, good juju appreciated.