That and..."I don't know".lotstodo said:Two words........"Yes dear".
Sinks? Bathrooms! hahaha I try saying that the one in our bedroom is mine, go find another one to use. I do have dibs on the closet. No way am I sharing that! :laughsadie612 said:oh and never sharing closets or bathroom sinks
"No, I didn't see that girl with the big boobs."Callahan said:That and..."I don't know".lotstodo said:Two words........"Yes dear".
lotstodo said:"No, I didn't see that girl with the big boobs."Callahan said:That and..."I don't know".lotstodo said:Two words........"Yes dear".
Where did she go?lotstodo said:"No, I didn't see that girl with the big boobs."Callahan said:That and..."I don't know".lotstodo said:Two words........"Yes dear".
Guard Dad said:What keeps the sizzle in yours? What makes it strong? What mistakes have you made and learned from?
All helpful comments and suggestions are encouraged.
Genevieve said:Guard Dad said:What keeps the sizzle in yours? What makes it strong? What mistakes have you made and learned from?
All helpful comments and suggestions are encouraged.
Seriously, I would have to say I've learned to receive from God and give to my spouse--a hard lesson taking many years to learn.
Guard Dad said:A few serious thoughts...
1) If your relationship started out right, your spouse-to-be was the center of your universe. That should never change. Your spouse should come before your children. OK, I know some of you will take issue with this; but to set the right kind of loving family structure, your spouse must be number one (second to God if you're Christian). That will form the kind of relationship that will pass that love to the children.
2) Never lose the passion for your spouse. OK, this is partly physical, but not all. Many years ago I was inspired by an older couple of a church I went to. They were in their 70's (so probably not a lot of getting busy going on), but they were constantly holding hands, flirting with each other, etc. They were like two teenagers who were absolutely giddy for each other. I decided then that this was the type of marriage I wanted. Wifey and I have worked on being more like that couple. Why should we lose our sweethearts just because we've been married for a long time?
3) OK, gonna get a little controversial on this one. We owe it to our spouses to be the best we can be for them. That includes a lot of things; working hard, providing, being a great parent, being a self-less lover, etc. But it also means taking care of yourself and trying to stay attractive to them. Only so much we can do about aging, but we can dress nicely and try to maintain our bodies as much as is within reason. I'm not going to harp on this and I'm certainly not justifying anything; but I think the rates of cheating and divorce would be lower if we stayed "hot" for our spouses. Enough about that before I get into trouble. :-*
4) Take care of...ummm...business. That goes both ways and isn't only about physical needs. Men usually cheat for physical needs, and women often cheat for other needs like romance. A man or woman who's physical and psychological needs are being met is far less subject to temptation. This is basic human nature.
Enough for now, let's see what kind of comments (or fireballs) I get on these. opcorn
unionmom said:There's a difference between loving your children more and putting them ahead of everything else all of the time.
I absolutely will not tolerate my children interrupting when my hubby and I are talking and we have time that is just ours but we also both agree that if we ever have to choose between saving the other or saving our children, there is no choice. It would be the kids.
unionmom said:There's a difference between loving your children more and putting them ahead of everything else all of the time.
I absolutely will not tolerate my children interrupting when my hubby and I are talking and we have time that is just ours but we also both agree that if we ever have to choose between saving the other or saving our children, there is no choice. It would be the kids.
Guard Dad said:unionmom said:There's a difference between loving your children more and putting them ahead of everything else all of the time.
I absolutely will not tolerate my children interrupting when my hubby and I are talking and we have time that is just ours but we also both agree that if we ever have to choose between saving the other or saving our children, there is no choice. It would be the kids.
Agreed. But that is not what I was getting at. In your family structure, your spouse should be your number one. A lot of parents shove their spouses aside when they have children. That is wrong! Our spouses came first and should always be by our partners in every way.