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Madea said:Marriage is NOT easy! You take two people from two different backgrounds and place them in a house and they are to turn it into a home, love each other unconditionally, and make it work. I've said for years if something were to happen with this marriage, I don't see myself doing this again. ) that wasn't originally intended to be funny, but I have to admit that it is. Anyway, during the harder times I've always just stepped back and asked myself, would this be better somewhere else, and it wouldn't. I don't require he make me happy 24/7.
Very well said.
I also think that as important it is to have alone time with your spouse it is also very important to have your own time. Whether it be a hobby, time out with friends, whatever.